Tulpa.info - tulpa-questions

yes?

5:36 AM

I have no idea what that is

oh.

5:36 AM

okay. That's less gun than what I was expecting.

It started as Chihaki and went through a series of iterations of nice sounding names until I found one that was easy to remember and pronounce

my libido doubled after making Twi

5:38 AM

She's literally nonstop horny and has been from the start, idk why. The bleedover is VERY noticeable

ok fuck it I've got to do something about this...the mind-boner is driving me insane

5:38 AM

gimme a few minutes

When you let your tulpa decide what to have for dinner

[Give her more than a few minutes

This discussion is not being done in anywhere near an acceptable manner.

@SkyeNet I was gonna ask if this belonged in NSFW

If you are going to discuss sexual topics here, please do so in an intellectual manner.

Mommy winter is in the house

5:40 AM

Also since when was there an NSFW channel

...and certainly not simply asking if you "should or shouldn't give in to your tulpa begging for sex".

5:40 AM

There is also not a NSFW channel here.

that's just what they want you to think!

If people can discuss things in a mature and intellectual manner, particularly things that are NSFW, then there is no problem - but if that can't happen, then it does need to stay in PM.

postmortem

5:41 AM

Yeah as in let’s stop talking about sex

5:42 AM

high five funk

5:42 AM

yeah sure

(edited)

5:42 AM

this is as close as I could find to a highfive emoji

5:42 AM

it is now the official highfive emoji

5:42 AM

✋

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...or, of course, in another server where this casual talk is allowed.

Yeah no boobs or penises in here fellas.

5:43 AM

God. I hate Corona.

5:43 AM

corona?

oh I get tulpa.info and the Tavern mixed up too easily

this piss beer

too many crossovers

My sister drank all the Yuengling

5:44 AM

foreign beer brands be like

5:44 AM

over here we have a beer just called lion

5:44 AM

my favorite, too.

5:44 AM

where are you from?

5:44 AM

eh, doesn't seem like a bad place to share it.

5:44 AM

Serbia.

5:44 AM

jealous

5:44 AM

I’m from Pennsylvania. Lmfao

5:44 AM

...why tho

5:45 AM

I feel like it’d be cool to live in a country like that. Or at least visit.

5:45 AM

boi, this place is super corrupt.

5:45 AM

Like for hiking

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oh sure.

5:45 AM

I would never live in the EU or anywhere around it.

5:45 AM

I myself plan to move either to a northern country or to england.

5:46 AM

ye

5:46 AM

zero patriotism here

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lmfao

5:46 AM

I think we're derailing #tulpa-questions

5:46 AM

Right

'Allo

Can your tulpa feel physical senses? Say, if someone were punched in the face would they also feel it? I ask because my brothers and I often playfully "fight" each other, and I wouldn't want her getting hurt

If you establish a sense of connection with it, sure. I can willingly choose to feel what my host is feeling physically.

Thank you

Overlord/ ahh so they can feel it, but can also choose to block it out....interesting (edited)

As long as you establish connections.

Overlord/ dammit I wrote on her account again....

I'm stressing so much about maintaining Nathalie even I only recently started forcing

the fact that you're worrying about it, means you care. Just don't worry so much that it gets in the way. You'll be fine.

@Deleted User Take your time.

Something did happen tho

9:19 PM

And I'm not sure what it was

Give her attention and support, and don't stress out about doing it all the time as long as it is generally consistent.

9:20 PM

The consistency is important more than anything else - including how intensely focused the forcing is.

Alright

let me ask something can I switch with a not-yet-totally-formed-tulpa? I'm fed up with the bullshit and stress of the last two weeks and just need somewhere to practice escapism can I just...give up for a while and let Ikari do something? or is that a terrible idea?

No one is ever "fully formed", tulpa or not. It's not a good idea if you don't have clear communication and differentiation, though.

I would not recommend it for how underdeveloped Ikari seems to me.

that's what I thought

9:23 PM

I guess I tried

Nor would I, though not merely because of underdeveloped appearances.

the first steps are usually best done in a controlled environment with appropriate guidance

Consistent solid communication first - then possession to make sure using the body works, then dissociation of yourself to allow her to act on her own.

9:24 PM

That would be a solid set of steps to take in order to make sure that you both are doing so safely.

I can do dissociation all day long

9:25 PM

I got very good at that in buttfuckistan

using switching as a means of escapism is generally not recommended, after all ikari would then be forced to deal with whatever it is you're dealing with

well it's mostly just mental stuff

9:25 PM

people I care about disappearing

9:25 PM

things that I think probably wouldn't affect her since she didn't know them

Indeed. Switching shouldn't be used as full escapism by any means.

Dissociation here is used in a different way that it normally is. It does not feel the same as dissociation and derealism, at least to me.

The closest that Skye and I get is using it to generally suppress flare-ups of negative mental states that the other is less affected by.

what DOES dissociation mean?

Beyond that - yes. Dissociation is being used a bit differently than the clinical definition.

I use dissociation to mean the ablility to turn off the senses

9:27 PM

I can turn off very effectively touch and smell

9:27 PM

to a lesser extent, taste as well

In this case, 'dissociation' as in 'stepping back from the body entirely' - not necessarily turning off the senses, but moving back so as to allow the other to front.

9:27 PM

Ah. Congratulations. It isn't easy to ignore senses quite so thoroughly.

9:27 PM

In any case.

when you live in sand and dust and sweat and mud you learn to just -click- them off

"Stepping back" and having the other front instead would essentially make it so that you cannot directly act with the body without requesting permission again.

Dissociation as in derealism and so on, is actually used fairly commonly as a coping mechanism. It can also be a disorder where you have no control over it.

ok so what I'm reading is that this is either not possible, or a terrible idea